New Year’s Resolutions are a waste. Don’t be sucked in.

new-years-resolutions-wp-postIf You want to resolve to .. set goals, be a better person, lose weight, exercise more, save money etc,

THEN

making a New Year’s Resolution won’t save You.

Your life, your actions aren’t predicated on a date on a calendar.

You can make changes to Your Life on ANY day and at any given point in a day.

Waiting for New Year’s Eve, hoping your fairy tale will come true is simply wishful thinking.

You Are better than that.

2017 is Yours if You want it.

Plan for it to be so, Now.

Flick the switch.

Real plans, real goals, real achievement comes from the spark within You to make it happen.

And You can do that at any time.

NOW is always the best time.

Be Relentless.

Plan. Execute. Follow through.

Life IS Too short.

Delay = Regret.

Please enjoy a massive Christmas and Festive season.

Need some help setting extraordinary, achievable goals? ..

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Be good to Yourself

David

Truth teller. Life Coach. Life Motivator for Men/Women 35-55.

Making your 40’s & 50’s Shine

 ** To find Me on Social Media .. Simply search  #DavidLifeCoach  

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Are You playing the Smoke & Mirrors game?

It’s Time to Get Real, don’t You think?

This time of year, heading toward Christmas & into another brand New Year is often a time for reflection.  Again.

The truth is, You don’t need a New Year to cause You to reflect. You can do that anytime.

But now that we are on the verge of  that time again , let’s have a look at the state of play.

I’ve used “again” twice already because I see so many times, people promising themselves that next year will be different.

Only to forget that ‘promise’ by 14 days in.

It’s time to get Real, don’t You think?get-real-set-goals-li-1

Start by setting the GOALS that WILL elevate your life.

NOW. [because Now is always the best time].

Life IS Too short to play with 2nd rate goals. And to delay starting on 1st rate goals.

Push yourself further. Believe me, You can.

Expand your opportunities, vision, daily thoughts.

Now, follow through on those goals .. until You succeed.

Giving up will not be an option for You in 2017 [if You ARE ready to get Real].

Your goals may be small [to start with], however if they focus on improving your life .. then they are Big!

2017 will be YOUR Year  if You get cracking Now.

 

Be good to Yourself

David

Truth teller. Life Coach. Life Motivator for Men/Women 35-55.

Making your 40’s & 50’s Shine

** To find Me on Social Media  .. Simply search  #DavidLifeCoach  

 

You know what You have to Do

Uncertainty. Doubt. Excuses. Laziness.

These are the perfect ingredients to ‘wheel spin’ through your life.

And when you are spinning your wheels there seems to be a lot of activity

however, there is no traction.

Nothing is really getting achieved.

In fact, your life is in a holding pattern. Stationary. Watching life pass you by.

But the funny thing is [it’s not really funny, more sad] is that ..

You know what You have to Do.you-know-what-you-have-to-do-wp-blog

Cue back to the opening line of this post .. Uncertainty. Doubt. Excuses. Laziness.

You can fully own these four if you want to.

We have all fallen for them at some point in our lives. But don’t let them take over your life.

Own Your shit.

Stop the excuses. Stop being lazy.

Doubt, Uncertainty .. Yes we have that but doing stuff will push that to the side.

Everyone has doubt & uncertainty. Don’t let them tell you any different.

The people who get ahead & move on with their lives aren’t afraid to do stuff even if they fail at it.

Keep doing & your success rate will rise.

At the end of the day You know what You have to do.

Make choices. Better choices. Take action.

Decide that enough is enough. Gain traction .. then start moving forward.

For the rest of this year & into 2017 & beyond, start doing.

 

Be good to Yourself

David

Truth teller. Life Coach. Life Motivator for Men/Women 35-55.

Making your 40’s & 50’s Shine

** To find Me on Social Media  .. Simply search  #DavidLifeCoach 

Imagination

Your Imagination .. is Your power source.

After all what is life without imagination?

Boring. Meaningless. These are two words that instantly come to mind.

And this power source of Yours feeds Your Creativity and Your mindset.Imagination WP Blog post

“Imagination is greater than knowledge”  said Einstein.

So imagine more. Flex those imagination muscles of Yours.

And while you are at it throw in some Big Dreams ..

and dream them often.

And from those dreams go and create stuff & believe in what You are creating.

Visualise this, visualise a life full of creativity, dreams and goals that are set from those dreams.

Your goals. Your dreams. Your creativity.

Touch it, feel it. Imagine it.

 

Be good to Yourself

David

Goal Kicker. Life Coach. Life Motivator for Men/Women 35-55.

Making your 40’s & 50’s Shine

** To find Me on Social Media  .. Simply search  #DavidLifeCoach  

 

Life is TOO short for “Lack”

Very brief posting however straight to the point.

Carrying an excess baggage of “lacks” through life is going to weigh You down .. Heavily.

Spending Your time worrying about what You don’t have is personal growth suicide.

Life is Too short for that.

Embrace what You DO have & work with it to gradually fill Your ‘lack gaps’.

It may take time [it will] however You will also grow with the experience.Life is Too short blog post

 

Be good to yourself

David

Goal Kicker. Life Coach. Life Motivator for Men/Women 35-55.

Making your 40’s & 50’s Shine

** To find Me on Social Media  .. Simply search #DavidLifeCoach  

Scare Your Boundaries

You know that Comfort zone of yours?

The one where you feel comfortable in, funnily enough.

No worries. No scary moments. No growth. No goals to aspire to.

We all have them. We’ve all been in one. No risk. No pressure.

But life moves on.

You head toward and in to your forties. Then into your fifties. Then ..

You have a pile of regret.Scare your boundaries

When You stay cocooned in your own comfortable space [for whatever reason] you do become immune to the opportunities around You.

Missed opportunities that is.

You run the very real chance of stagnating.

Now that’s a pretty harsh word that one “stagnating”.

However it’s also a harsh situation finding yourself @50 regretting your missed opportunities. [Even worse @ 60]

Oh Yes, You did finally realise that life was moving on but you weren’t moving with it.

It’s not too late to start scaring your boundaries but it’s much better you do so in your 30’s & 40’s and then live an expanded life rather than one in a bubble.

Are You ready to Scare Your Boundaries?

 

Be good to yourself

David

Goal Kicker. Life Coach. Life Motivator for Men/Women 35-55.

Making your 40’s & 50’s Shine

** To find Me on Social Media  .. Simply search #DavidLifeCoach  

 

 

 

Maybe it’s time to light Your fire .. & keep it lit

Motivation is the beginning of something HUGE.

When you have Motivation, Life becomes easier.

However it’s not something that is always “at the ready”. Different things motivate different people.

Some people are simply unmotivated .. or so it seems.

Let’s just concentrate on the “unmotivated” for now.

Yes, I think that maybe You. Do I have your attention?Maybe it's time to light your fire Blog post

For the unmotivated, I’d like you to consider these 7 questions.

But please do it quickly. Life’s too short to stay unmotivated.

There’s also 1 answer that I believe can put All of these questions to rest.

But please, answer the questions firstly ..

 

What will my life look like tomorrow if I do nothing today?

Do I really want this day to repeat itself?

If I could do anything, what would that Be and would I do that today?

Can I look myself in the mirror and be proud?

What do my friends & family think of Me?

When I’m 60 what will I regret not doing earlier?

Is “there’s always tomorrow” my most common excuse?

The last question may give You a hint as to my One [1] answer.

Tomorrow is a chance to begin again. This is an oft used analogy.

For the unmotivated “tomorrow” just keeps coming. There is always another one so no pressure to change.

However you eventually run out of ‘tomorrows’ and suddenly you are that 60 year old sitting in the corner mulling over all of your regrets.

Is that the way you want it to be?

Can I be so bold as to suggest this? ..

Start Today as a new day .. and then consider each day onward as ‘new days’ rather than tomorrows.

Try that & see how You go.

You can motivate yourself. Your life deserves that at the very least.

 

Be good to yourself

David

Goal Kicker. Life Motivator for Men/Women 35-55.

Making Your 40’s & 50’s Shine

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