New Year’s Resolutions are a waste. Don’t be sucked in.

new-years-resolutions-wp-postIf You want to resolve to .. set goals, be a better person, lose weight, exercise more, save money etc,

THEN

making a New Year’s Resolution won’t save You.

Your life, your actions aren’t predicated on a date on a calendar.

You can make changes to Your Life on ANY day and at any given point in a day.

Waiting for New Year’s Eve, hoping your fairy tale will come true is simply wishful thinking.

You Are better than that.

2017 is Yours if You want it.

Plan for it to be so, Now.

Flick the switch.

Real plans, real goals, real achievement comes from the spark within You to make it happen.

And You can do that at any time.

NOW is always the best time.

Be Relentless.

Plan. Execute. Follow through.

Life IS Too short.

Delay = Regret.

Please enjoy a massive Christmas and Festive season.

Need some help setting extraordinary, achievable goals? ..

Simply send me a message.

Be good to Yourself

David

Truth teller. Life Coach. Life Motivator for Men/Women 35-55.

Making your 40’s & 50’s Shine

 ** To find Me on Social Media .. Simply search  #DavidLifeCoach  

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Are You playing the Smoke & Mirrors game?

It’s Time to Get Real, don’t You think?

This time of year, heading toward Christmas & into another brand New Year is often a time for reflection.  Again.

The truth is, You don’t need a New Year to cause You to reflect. You can do that anytime.

But now that we are on the verge of  that time again , let’s have a look at the state of play.

I’ve used “again” twice already because I see so many times, people promising themselves that next year will be different.

Only to forget that ‘promise’ by 14 days in.

It’s time to get Real, don’t You think?get-real-set-goals-li-1

Start by setting the GOALS that WILL elevate your life.

NOW. [because Now is always the best time].

Life IS Too short to play with 2nd rate goals. And to delay starting on 1st rate goals.

Push yourself further. Believe me, You can.

Expand your opportunities, vision, daily thoughts.

Now, follow through on those goals .. until You succeed.

Giving up will not be an option for You in 2017 [if You ARE ready to get Real].

Your goals may be small [to start with], however if they focus on improving your life .. then they are Big!

2017 will be YOUR Year  if You get cracking Now.

 

Be good to Yourself

David

Truth teller. Life Coach. Life Motivator for Men/Women 35-55.

Making your 40’s & 50’s Shine

** To find Me on Social Media  .. Simply search  #DavidLifeCoach  

 

Life IS One Big Hustle. Believe it.

I am sure you seen & heard the phrase “Never give in” or “Never give up”.

Whilst it may be ever so easy to simply tell you to do that, doing it isn’t easy.

However, I am going to tell you again .. Never give in.

Keep your hustle alive

Keep your hustle alive

You know, in life, You need to position yourself to call the shots.

“Too old” is not too old.

Keep hustling, so to speak.

Cash in don’t tap out.

Because in every hustling moment  there come opportunity. It may be brief or fleeting but it’s there.

When you continue to work the game of life, by always taking action, by setting goals, by dreaming of an improved future .. You ARE hustling.

And the “hustle” only stops, when You call  game over.

Life IS Too short. You know that.

Keep Your hustle alive.

 

Be good to Yourself

David

Truth teller. Life Coach. Life Motivator for Men/Women 35-55.

Making your 40’s & 50’s Shine

** To find Me on Social Media  .. Simply search  #DavidLifeCoach  

What if .. You run out of time

Time, as You know, can be your worst enemy And also can be Your best friend.

So it makes sense that the time that You have is used for best purpose, whatever that may be for you.

However, is that what You do?

Distractions are part & parcel of life. Let’s be honest about that.

Time gets wasted, I’ve done that.

But there comes a time .. [unintentional pun] .. when you realise how valuable your time really is.

Life IS Too short

Life IS Too short

What would Your life be like? .. without the continual excitement of ..

Setting & achieving Goals.

Enjoying Fun, doing work that You Love, spending quality time with family/friends & creating Adventure.

Continual is the key here. You may be currently only doing this in spits & spurts.

Which leaves the rest of your time largely idle.

A Suggestion ..  How about You make your time your priority and make the things that are important to you an absolute priority.

It is often said that “Now” is the best time to do anything.

It is often said because in a vast majority of cases it is TRUE.

Especially when it comes to maximising your time with invigorating action.

Doing what is important to & for You IS incredibly liberating.

I strongly suggest that You take this on board before it’s too late.

Life IS too short. Regret is a bitter pill to swallow.

 

Be good to Yourself

David

Goal Kicker. Life Coach. Life Motivator for Men/Women 35-55.

Making your 40’s & 50’s Shine

** To find Me on Social Media  .. Simply search  #DavidLifeCoach  

 

 

 

Imagination

Your Imagination .. is Your power source.

After all what is life without imagination?

Boring. Meaningless. These are two words that instantly come to mind.

And this power source of Yours feeds Your Creativity and Your mindset.Imagination WP Blog post

“Imagination is greater than knowledge”  said Einstein.

So imagine more. Flex those imagination muscles of Yours.

And while you are at it throw in some Big Dreams ..

and dream them often.

And from those dreams go and create stuff & believe in what You are creating.

Visualise this, visualise a life full of creativity, dreams and goals that are set from those dreams.

Your goals. Your dreams. Your creativity.

Touch it, feel it. Imagine it.

 

Be good to Yourself

David

Goal Kicker. Life Coach. Life Motivator for Men/Women 35-55.

Making your 40’s & 50’s Shine

** To find Me on Social Media  .. Simply search  #DavidLifeCoach  

 

Setting up your Life beyond 40

Often men & women entering their 40’s start to reflect on what has happened in their life to date.

You may have reflected upon the same.

Where has my life gone?

What am I going to do with the rest of My life?

May be two such questions that You will ask of yourself.

“Is there something else for Me?” is another common call from those who may be stuck with their current circumstances. It smacks of staleness and sameness. A change of direction could be on the cards then? Is this You?

The phenomena of mid-life crisis is felt by many & for varying reasons. The thought that half your Life has gone is scary. The thought that the next half of your Life is around the corner & you have no plans to live it, is even more scarier!Life beyond 40 Blog post

Goal setting may seem “ho-hum” to many, however without some definitive plan for your future, “the crisis & the rut” are likely to continue.

Before you even consider setting yourself some goals, you do need to be motivated to create something worthwhile for the balance of your life. Without the desired motivation, any goals that are set, will eventually fade into the ether.

The process doesn’t need to be hard or difficult, you just need to commence thinking along more positive lines. And You need to get started.

Changing your thoughts starts to change the dynamics of your life. That’s a pretty good place to commence, don’t you think?

Start to view things differently. A healthy change of perspective, if you will.

It doesn’t have to be the same as it always has!

It all starts with your thinking. And then the motivation to follow this through.

Motivation with supporting action steps will bind together with your changing perspective on your life.

You are heading in to the next phase of your life. Establishing goals for it may seem daunting, especially if you have had no previous exposure to Goal Setting or have resisted it in the past.

However, the effort is worth it! Getting started is the hardest part though once you have, ‘the flow’ will commence.

The goal setting process of itself, is not that difficult. It is your life and your goals are your goals, they are what’s important to you.

So map out what are the most important goals for you to achieve. That’s probably the easiest part.

Any difficulties will arise if you don’t commit to them fully. If you find it hard going, contact a reliable Life Coach to give you the necessary support & encouragement.

My main point for this post is to ensure that you set your “back half” up correctly.

Age 40 & beyond is a wonderful place to be.

Your views on Life are changing. Your goals in Life no doubt need changing [or at least reviewing] as well.

Ask yourself, “What is really important to ME?”:

Now, the next 5 -10 years.

Time will not wait for you. Clarifying the important aspects of your life will help you set Meaningful Goals for now & your future.

** This post was refreshed April 27 2015

Be good to yourself

David

Motivator. Life Coach. Listener. 

Making Your 40’s & 50’s Shine

** Search #DavidLifeCoach to view many of my Social Media postings

 

A Very Short Story about Goals

Many say that writing down your goals adds commitment [to the goal]

I’m not going to argue with that however I’ve seen many

who have done just that and they simply spend their time just looking at them every day.

Regardless of whether you write them down or not, if the goal lacks sufficient meaning,

then you’re wasting your time. Writing it down won’t save You.Once you set them

Your best commitment is making sure that the goal means enough [for You personally] and you follow through by taking the action to get the goal achieved.

Plan your attack. Visualise yourself achieving the goal.

So, if you have a goal [or goals], make yourself happy
by doing something about it [them].

Be good to yourself

David

Motivator. Life Coach. Listener.

Making Your 40’s & 50’s Shine