New Year’s Resolutions are a waste. Don’t be sucked in.

new-years-resolutions-wp-postIf You want to resolve to .. set goals, be a better person, lose weight, exercise more, save money etc,

THEN

making a New Year’s Resolution won’t save You.

Your life, your actions aren’t predicated on a date on a calendar.

You can make changes to Your Life on ANY day and at any given point in a day.

Waiting for New Year’s Eve, hoping your fairy tale will come true is simply wishful thinking.

You Are better than that.

2017 is Yours if You want it.

Plan for it to be so, Now.

Flick the switch.

Real plans, real goals, real achievement comes from the spark within You to make it happen.

And You can do that at any time.

NOW is always the best time.

Be Relentless.

Plan. Execute. Follow through.

Life IS Too short.

Delay = Regret.

Please enjoy a massive Christmas and Festive season.

Need some help setting extraordinary, achievable goals? ..

Simply send me a message.

Be good to Yourself

David

Truth teller. Life Coach. Life Motivator for Men/Women 35-55.

Making your 40’s & 50’s Shine

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Are You playing the Smoke & Mirrors game?

It’s Time to Get Real, don’t You think?

This time of year, heading toward Christmas & into another brand New Year is often a time for reflection.  Again.

The truth is, You don’t need a New Year to cause You to reflect. You can do that anytime.

But now that we are on the verge of  that time again , let’s have a look at the state of play.

I’ve used “again” twice already because I see so many times, people promising themselves that next year will be different.

Only to forget that ‘promise’ by 14 days in.

It’s time to get Real, don’t You think?get-real-set-goals-li-1

Start by setting the GOALS that WILL elevate your life.

NOW. [because Now is always the best time].

Life IS Too short to play with 2nd rate goals. And to delay starting on 1st rate goals.

Push yourself further. Believe me, You can.

Expand your opportunities, vision, daily thoughts.

Now, follow through on those goals .. until You succeed.

Giving up will not be an option for You in 2017 [if You ARE ready to get Real].

Your goals may be small [to start with], however if they focus on improving your life .. then they are Big!

2017 will be YOUR Year  if You get cracking Now.

 

Be good to Yourself

David

Truth teller. Life Coach. Life Motivator for Men/Women 35-55.

Making your 40’s & 50’s Shine

** To find Me on Social Media  .. Simply search  #DavidLifeCoach  

 

Life IS One Big Hustle. Believe it.

I am sure you seen & heard the phrase “Never give in” or “Never give up”.

Whilst it may be ever so easy to simply tell you to do that, doing it isn’t easy.

However, I am going to tell you again .. Never give in.

Keep your hustle alive

Keep your hustle alive

You know, in life, You need to position yourself to call the shots.

“Too old” is not too old.

Keep hustling, so to speak.

Cash in don’t tap out.

Because in every hustling moment  there come opportunity. It may be brief or fleeting but it’s there.

When you continue to work the game of life, by always taking action, by setting goals, by dreaming of an improved future .. You ARE hustling.

And the “hustle” only stops, when You call  game over.

Life IS Too short. You know that.

Keep Your hustle alive.

 

Be good to Yourself

David

Truth teller. Life Coach. Life Motivator for Men/Women 35-55.

Making your 40’s & 50’s Shine

** To find Me on Social Media  .. Simply search  #DavidLifeCoach  

What if .. You run out of time

Time, as You know, can be your worst enemy And also can be Your best friend.

So it makes sense that the time that You have is used for best purpose, whatever that may be for you.

However, is that what You do?

Distractions are part & parcel of life. Let’s be honest about that.

Time gets wasted, I’ve done that.

But there comes a time .. [unintentional pun] .. when you realise how valuable your time really is.

Life IS Too short

Life IS Too short

What would Your life be like? .. without the continual excitement of ..

Setting & achieving Goals.

Enjoying Fun, doing work that You Love, spending quality time with family/friends & creating Adventure.

Continual is the key here. You may be currently only doing this in spits & spurts.

Which leaves the rest of your time largely idle.

A Suggestion ..  How about You make your time your priority and make the things that are important to you an absolute priority.

It is often said that “Now” is the best time to do anything.

It is often said because in a vast majority of cases it is TRUE.

Especially when it comes to maximising your time with invigorating action.

Doing what is important to & for You IS incredibly liberating.

I strongly suggest that You take this on board before it’s too late.

Life IS too short. Regret is a bitter pill to swallow.

 

Be good to Yourself

David

Goal Kicker. Life Coach. Life Motivator for Men/Women 35-55.

Making your 40’s & 50’s Shine

** To find Me on Social Media  .. Simply search  #DavidLifeCoach  

 

 

 

How tolerant are You, really?

What types of things do you tolerate in your life?

Is this a question that often comes to mind?

Probably not would be my guess. Therefore it is a question that you must ask of yourself from time to time.

Because there may be some things that You are putting up with .. that really You should let go of. For example ..

What about excuses?

What about continual disappointments?

Do you complain about Lack of …..?

What about frustrations, put downs, same old same old?How tolerant are You WP Blog post

Because the “opposites” may look like this ..

Fun, surprise, joy, success, spontaneity, achievement, money, love, friendship, goals.

It doesn’t have to be this way!

Clear the clutter, it’s time for a fresh start.

You only have one life to live and from today you are your No. 1 priority.

Because if you are not in tune, the people nearest and dearest to you can not prosper. Your health and wellbeing are paramount.

By ‘clearing the clutter’ I am talking about physical and mental ..

get rid of the physical things around you that no longer serve any worthwhile purpose and take time to clear your mind of unwanted/ negative thoughts that are holding you back/ stopping you from being the person the great creator intended.

If you want to let go of what you have been unnecessarily putting up with [I hope that You do[, then aim for a fresh start now  ..  renew, revitalise, re-ignite your sense of purpose and start living the life that you deserve.

 

Be good to Yourself

David

Motivator. Life Coach. Listener.

Making Your 40’s & 50’s Shine

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The Art of getting it together – “The How to’s”

You have many challenges in life. Some you will overcome, some you simply will not be able to.

These latter challenges will thwart you because of either of reasons:

  1. you don’t have the skill to overcome them
  2. you don’t have the willpower to overcome them
  3. The Universe got in the way
  4. Some things are meant to be (must be that “Universe” again)
  5. You give up 

For most of us, 1. 2. & 5. are the relevant ones,  I will talk about 3. & 4. later.

If you do want to overcome your challenges, then point 1. is salvageable. People with the will to overcome obstacles will get it together.The Art of getting it Together Blog Post

You may need help, however if you have the “will” to overcome then you will seek out all options to do so. And that will set you apart from others.

‘The Art of getting it together’  emanates from your very own Willpower.

Here are two examples of stating just that:

The power of frustration … “I’ve had enough, I won’t put up with this anymore”

The power of wanting more out of your life … “I can do better”

When you decide to initiate your Willpower, You begin to turn things around.

Skills can be learned. You may not have them at the moment however someone who does have them can teach you. Or, you make the extra effort to learn them yourself. I’ve certainly been in both categories … and still am.

When you don’t have the willpower [or decide not to use it],then you are at the mercy of whatever comes your way. Some will flow with this and say “what the heck” or “I’m in the flow” (of whatever) AND some will simply get swept away (and complain immeasurably).

This is where The Universe  does  play a huge part ….. you have the power of Choice. You choose to take positive action or not. I can only suggest that you try the positive and inject some Willpower.

To give credit where it’s due, those who “give up” have in the most part, at least initially tried. They have had crack and that’s worthy.

If this is you, then more than likely your willpower has run out of steam or you have lacked support. The good news for you is that there is a glimmer of hope. In fact there is a rainbow of hope.

When you read this, do something for me. Reach out. You need a confidence boost, a shot of energy, an embrace of hope. There is someone out there who will support you through this. Reach out for the rainbow …. all the colours thereof exemplify the amount of options open to you.

Giving up is a poor option though I can understand that frustration plays huge in your life. It gets the better of me at times.

So, what is the answer?

When I have a target, goal, dream, desire that IS strong enough, emotional enough and important enough, I will work to see it through.

The time frame isn’t that important, however the “will” to get it done, is ….. because it’s that important.

You can do the same, I am sure.

Please feel free to share your thoughts here and via your favourite Social Media Channels.

You can also reach out to Me if you need some help.

This post was re purposed from this post at my website 

 

Be good to yourself

David

Motivator. Listener. Life Coach

#DavidLifeCoach

Making Your 40″s & 50’s Shine

Short Story No. 2

Hi again.

You can dream it up. You can talk about it. You can polish up your “wish genie”. You can read all there is to read. You may even set yourself some stirring goals.

But that will all come to nothing unless you own these characteristics … Your Life Tools

Be good to yourself

David

Life Coach. Listener. Motivator.

Making Your 40′s & 50′s Shine

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