You know fellow adventurers, I get sick to death of people trying to be someone else. You hear comments like….
- “I wish I could be like him/her”
- “I wish I had his/her success”
- “If only I had his/her looks”
- If only I could have the life that he/she does
- If only I could play like him/her
And the really sad thing is…….people will continue to daydream & ignore what they have within. Developing yourself is a long process regardless of what all the wiz bang ‘experts’ say. It is a difficult job, it is hard, it takes time…….however it’s worth it!
Self Acceptance is mandatory. After all, you are you. There is no mistake. Living your Life being solely influenced by ‘external factors/people’ is a mirage. It’s not real.
Create your own reality by being you & you only. Play your own games, visualise & then live your own Life. And the great thing about this game is…….you will never tire of it. It’s an ongoing game of imagination, learning & fun, just by playing the part of you.
Now I did say earlier that this was “hard”. Yep but the hardest bit is letting go of the “externals” & embrace the “internals”, of you. Set them free, be yourself. I also said that it takes a long time. OK, what I meant was that it can take a long time to realise that you are playing someone else’s game, not your own. Wake up…….
It’s never too late to start playing your own game.
Are you being you or are you trying to be someone else?
Be good to yourselves
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