This 2nd part of our post is designed to make you think more deeply about where you are currently situated in Life and where you are aiming to be “down the road”. In the first post , “learning” was a focal point along with discovering more about you & asking the right questions.
I would like to dedicate part 2 on what to learn to ensure that you move in the direction that is right for you. This is what I believe will help;
LEARN to be aware…..of your thoughts & your subsequent actions
LEARN to observe your behaviour….step outside of yourself for a look in
LEARN that there is no end to “learning”
LEARN to ask questions of yourself…….don’t just accept any outcome
LEARN that your current outcomes are a result of your current thoughts
LEARN that if you want to change your outcomes, change your thoughts
- (Re) Establishing a pattern of personal excellence, particularly in your mid life, will ensure you live the rest of your Life with vibrancy, discover new horizons, broaden existing ones and set continual ‘personal bests’. If this is new to you, great!
ASK plenty of “what if” questions…….don’t just accept ‘what is’…….consider ‘what if ‘. Asking this will open up new possibilities. In fact, it will open up everything.
”What if I could…….dream of a great future
“What if I can……. have the Life that I want NOT just accept ‘what is’
“What if I would allow……. myself to feel the passion of Life before it slips away
“What if I forgive myself for……. past ‘indiscretions’ & move forward with a clean slate
“What if I thank……. my higher authority for allowing me another chance
- There are many more. Add your “what if ” questions to this list or make a list of your own.
- Most importantly tap in & use your Imagination
N.B Do not allow “what if’s to dominate in such a way as to cause you to keep saying “what if”. At some point, preferably the sooner the better, “what if” converts to “what can…..”, i.e ‘can do actions’. Convert the possibilities in to probabilities otherwise you will remain wondering & be in a state of limbo.
I trust that your Life’s journey is an enjoyable one.
Be good to yourselves
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